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Personal vows that sound like you wrote them — because they're built from what you actually want to say. Tell us about your relationship. We'll build the draft.
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The anatomy of great vows
The opening
A specific moment or observation that sets the tone — something concrete, not a general statement about love.
"You are the first person I've wanted to tell things to."
The why
What you love about this person specifically. Not their appearance or general goodness — what they do, how they think, what they make you feel.
"You make me braver. Not by pushing me — by just being someone worth being brave for."
The promises
The actual vows. Specific, speakable, honest. What you're actually committing to doing.
"I promise to show up. On the easy days and the hard ones."
The close
Short and strong. This is what they'll remember. Don't let it trail off.
"I love you. I choose you. I'm yours."
FAQ
How long should wedding vows be?
1 to 2 minutes each. Under 90 seconds is perfectly fine — concise vows are often more powerful. What matters is that every sentence is genuine.
What should personal wedding vows include?
Something specific to your relationship (a memory, a quality, a moment), the actual promises you're making, and a strong close. Avoid starting with the dictionary definition of love.
Should wedding vows be funny?
If that's who you are as a couple, yes. Humor in vows works when it's grounded in something real — a shared inside reference — not just a generic joke.
How do I write vows that don't sound cliché?
Start with one specific moment. Not 'from the day I met you' — but a particular scene. The specificity is what makes vows feel real.
Do we need to write our own vows?
Only if you want to. Traditional vows are perfectly valid. But personal vows — written around your specific relationship — tend to be the most moving moments of any ceremony.